I often talk to my male friends about their relationships and I can definitely describe the typical woman of their dreams. Since my personal circumstances are far from ideal, I have decided to talk about the “dream woman”. So what do men see in ladies that attracts their attention?
In general, a man would like to see a combination of the following qualities:
- charming and happy
- smiling and radiant
- the ability to understand a man
- sincerity in words and deeds
- good character and feminine behaviour
- the ability to maintain a comfort
So, to wrap it up, any woman who has the qualities described above would be considered as ideal.
Yes, we know all these qualities and we understand them, BUT… if a woman has all of them, she would never be able to become a DREAM WOMAN. Sounds crazy, but let me explain why.
The truth is, sooner or later she will turn to just a “good girl”, a “good wife” or a “good housewife”, which is then becomes boring!
A dream woman always keeps a man on the edge; she has all the necessary qualities to show a man that she is an interesting personality and is capable of many things. Only in this case, a man does not get tired to be with her! Only in this case, a man is always in a state of excitement and hunting for this woman.
So, what qualities do you need to become a dream woman?
A real woman is able to control her emotional dependence on men. This means she has a wide range of interests, hobbies and favourite activities. So she will never get bored when her man is busy.
Mysterious woman always leaves a room for mystery in a relationship with a man. This is especially important in the initial stage of dating. What does it mean? There is no need to tell them about your talents – let the man reveal these qualities by himself.
A dream woman can fully trust and rely on her man, giving him the leading role, but she appreciates and maintains her own independence. This means that even if your man is ready to provide, you should not just relax and stay where you are! Have a hobby that brings you income and, more important, moral satisfaction, respect and recognition from your man and others.
A woman of dreams should never chase a man. She leaves this prerogative for him! Most men are afraid of women endlessly ringing with questions: “How are you?”, “Will I see you today?” or “Why are you not answering me?” All men see these actions as you desire to limit their personal freedom to control his actions.
A dream woman always leaves a man unsatisfied. This means that during the beginning of relationship she is not afraid to refuse him; she can “afford” not to answer his phone call and just be out of his reach. Such a woman will not be phoning him at work, and distracting during an important meeting or negotiations. Only in this case, a man will not get bored and will be genuinely looking for a reason to be together.
A dream woman understands when a man needs to be alone and does not get involved. She is always ready to give him some free time and does not take offense for it. Surprisingly, man takes it as the highest degree of trust, passion and love.
A real woman is able to control her own time.
She lives in accordance with the most comfortable rhythm of her life. Even when relationship has reached the new level, and you decide to live together, the man knows exactly how much time you need to sleep, and how much time you need to prepare yourself before leaving home.
In addition, control of personal time – it is the ability to fill their own time, when a man is too busy to pay attention to you.
A woman of dreams appreciates herself and remains confident in her own beauty. This is manifested in her ability to accept compliments with a flirty smile and grateful “Thank you!”
A confident woman will never ask the man about his past relationships, or agree to compete with other women. Instead, she cares about herself with love and tender.
Self-Love is the Foundation of Self-Esteem
According to psychologists, self-esteem comes from a self-care. That’s why it is so important to learn how to look after yourself at the first place. I know, we all feel lazy from time to time, but what if you just spend your salary on expensive high heels that you always wanted, or just give yourself a new style with that curling wand that was stored in your drawer for ages? Nothing feels better than a feeling of being stunning!
However, once again I want to draw your attention to the fact that success in love depends not on the exterior alone! It entirely depends on the personality! So try to achieve harmony between the outer and inner world!
If you learn to combine the qualities of an “ideal woman” and a “dream woman “, he will be more likely to miss your company.
Just be happy with your inner self and the true love will come shortly!